for the meantime, you might wanna read our swiss garden holiday we took last year. we are on the same place now, doing the same thing but more interesting this time and more things to do as samantha is now older.
swiss garden holiday - part 1
swiss graden holiday - part 2
May 30, 2008
we're on holiday!
still on holiday break
rejuvinating treat. the beach would be a plus too. you don't need to go out to the town to look for some other things to do. at swiss garden hotel where we are staying at right now, they offer a lot of things to do like trekking, island hopping, pangkor drop which there's a shuttle ferry to get you to an island, fine dining, activities for the kids and a lot more. sometimes when you go out holidaying, it's not about how famous the place is that would truly give you fun. it's what the hotel is offering you. then you don't need to go out and look out for some other things to do. hotel rooms are nice to stay in but i guess it would be nicer to stay in villas where you could do things your own, like cooking your own food and you can bring friends because the villas will have more than one room to spare. in fact, if you don't believe me, check out St. Barts villa rentals. and you will see for sure what i'm talking about.
Filipino Band
back home who haven't gone abroad yet, they must be wondering how to get into working abroad. I recommend using Boston resumes. It's very easy to get work if you apply with them.I am not back from my holiday yet. I just try to get a chance to quickly check my emails and some opps to write. And I found I have a couple of them today. Good thing my kids are too tired to go out now. They're asleep.
May 27, 2008
daddy's corner
May 25, 2008
spaghetti bolognese


here are the ingredients:
500 grams spaghetti no. 3
1 can of prego spaghetti sauce (my favorite flavor is basil, garlic tomato sauce)
8 cloves garlic2 big-sized onions
1 tsp ground pepper
1 tsp italian herbs
1 cup tomato sauce
1 pound ground beef
1 beef cube
2 tablespoon olive oil
salt to taste
loads of parmesan cheeze
cooking instruction (for the spaghetti sauce):
- heat the olive oil in a pan, saute garlic and onions until light brown.
- add in the ground beef - cook for 10 minutes
- add in beef cube
- mix in the prego and tomato sauce
- add a little bit of water
- let cook for another 10 minutes, medium heat fire
- salt to taste
- boil water
- add 2 tbs of salt and 2 tbs of oil
- put in the pasta
- cook for 10 minutes in medium heat fire
- drain the pasta under the cool water
- mix olive oil to avoid sticking up
here's what happened to the pasta:

May 24, 2008
My Friends' PRs
I felt so guilty. I felt that I was the one who had pushed them into the pit. Until now, I still feel so guilty. One of my friends said, there went her treadmill. Probably if I could just turn back the time, I wouldn't have recommended that company then. But of course, there is still hope. They could buy their own domain so that other companies could accept them. Now both of them are considering buying their own domain. I just hope everything works better for them this time. So that my friend can indeed buy that much hoped treadmill.
have you ridden a horse?
This is Shadowfax - the most beautiful of all horses - in the trilogy movies Lord of the Rings, that is. Gandalf used Shadowfax in calling out for the alliances. Not only he's the most beautiful horse, he also was the fastest. I can't forget the line Gandalf said to Shadowfax when they were about to leave: "Show them the meaning of haste." Woah, it gave me goosebumps, I tell you. I wonder if they used horse supplements for Shadowfax though because he ran around so much for three full days. Hehehe. Actually, in reality, you have to. I have ridden horses when I was young because mom and I would usually visit my father at the project site he was assigned. He was in an Engineering Battalion that time. So he would be assigned where no private contractors could go because of the danger and remoteness of the area. I loved those moments where horse owners would just offer their horses to be ridden. And they sure would give me the gentlest of all because I wasn't a professional rider (and that goes beyond saying of course). Have you ridden a horse?
birthday party
whether he wanted to buy the cake or he wanted me to make the cake. He said to make a cake was better. Hmmm... I have to polish my cake-baking skill (as if I have that skill already - hehe) then. Alamak. To celebrate it in the club is sure very expensive. So I'm thinking probably, we'll celebrate it at home this time. We just use a portable beer pong tables because we don't have enough tables for parties at home. Just decorate it a bit and we'd have a perfect table for the party.
May 22, 2008
home alone, again
peter is leaving for phuket today. soon, actually. he'd be gone for 5 days. he's taking a group to check/help on the project there. remember the 2004 tsunami? a few islands in the province of phuket were affected, right? so they have set up a project there to help with the relief and development especially for the sea gypsies. now, they're in the development stage where they put up schools, church, and what not.you might wanna check out our swiss garden holiday last year:
swiss garden 1
swiss garden 2
May 21, 2008
my girl
May 20, 2008
janet - then and now
This is a tag from Mitch.
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The Rule:
Post a picture of YOU through the years. You can post as far back as you can and as far back as what you can dig with your pictures. Finish your post and tag three people
Link up the BLOG post you had your entry on (let’s keep this real and not a viral link exchange, people, kies? Thanks! :D)
Blogs who participated:
Aggie | Yen | Glo | Jacq | Buge | Nice | Vannie | Mitch | j3net | janet | You are next!
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Aish, Mimi, Bern and Ruby, do you wanna do this too?
May 18, 2008
Becoming A Parent
It brings a lot of surprises. Some pleasant... some uncalled for. When I was single, I was envisioning myself as a best mother one could ever be. I got married, thinking I could have as many kids as we wanted to have. I was very idealistic. I thought when I give birth, I want my baby to be the smartest, most advanced, most disciplined, whatever-you-can-think-of mosts one could ever be. I got my first baby. True, he was the most beautiful thing to behold. I started doing whatever the books and articles in the internet I had read said. I wanted a perfect baby. It didn't last long. My ideals turned into reality. I couldn't have a perfect baby. I couldn't even have more than 2! As in... It's already a challenge to have one, harder to have the 2nd... what more with 3?

You see, becoming a parent makes you realize a lot of things. Probably once in your life, you were very idealistic. You want things your own way. (The baby goes the other way). Practically all your ideals are gone. You are now faced with reality. And we are surprised.

I have laid back a little after I realized I couldn't turn my baby into the smartest-cutest-most-intelligent kid on the block. I have to respect his limits. I have to realize who he is and what his personality is. I have to discover his own strengths and weaknesses. I have to enhance whatever strengths he has and mitigate whatever weaknesses he has. Yes, he is an extension of me and my hubby. But he is not us. And guess what... he could be better. I mean, better than what we expected of him. As long as we, as parents nurture him and love him with all our hearts and even all our mights.

Becoming a parent is one of the noblest task one could be. One can become a parent easily but to be a good parent is another story. It takes a bit of sacrifice, especially when the baby wakes up in the middle of the night looking for milk. It takes effort to read to him nightly just so we help him with his language development. It takes an energy to usher him when he starts walking. It takes just about everything just to nurture him. It takes unconditional love to go on and parent him... all the days of his life. Above all, it takes God to give us wisdom, strength and love as we guide, nurture and love our kids.

After having said all these, they may surprise us by being smart, well-behaved, etc... but there's no better reward than hearing them say I love you, Mom with matching hugs and kisses. This is just from a mother's heart. I hope I'm making sense...
Related Article: My Birth Story
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May 17, 2008
Meme
Participants: Tere - Blessing in Life | Yen - Me and Mine | Mitch - When Silence Speaks | Mitch - Etc Atbp | Janet - the nambiars | J3net - Expressions and Thoughts | YOU'RE NEXT!
1. What do you want for your birthday? Nice Relaxing holiday with my family.
2. Who will be your next kiss? Probably my kids (Samantha and Schenker - Hubby is still sick)
3. When was the last time you went to the mall?This morning - after my boy's Sport's Day
4. Are you wearing socks right now? No.
5. How did you spend your summer? No summer where I live but I've been spending time the usual way.
6. Have you been to the cinema in the last 5 days? No. Didn't even buy any movies in dvd.
7. What was the last thing you had to drink? Rooibos tea - know to be the only tea that doesn't have caffeine... only found in South Africa.
8. What are you wearing right now? My beige tops and black pants.
9. What was your last purchase? Books on parenting.
10. What was the last food you ate? Spaghetti.
I am tagging: Ruby, Josiet, Aisha, Mimi, Bern and Lalaine,
I Am Ranting Again
If you've been following my posts, you would notice that I rant so much about my notebook. It is super slow in its speed. Opening it up takes forever to do. Like I'm still in Flinstones Age (actually not coz there was no computers on that era yet - hehehe - just exaggerating a bit). A friend told me that her husband did something to make their computer work fast, like putting half of the memory to the D drive and half of the memory to the C drive (we have the same notebook brand and model). Now I wonder how in the world can I do that. I'm technically better than my husband but it doesn't mean I know everything about techie stuff. I think the best thing to do is extend my computer's memory. But for now, I think I may have to store my files in some usb flash drives. Suggestions, anybody?
Chicago Trip
No, I'm not going to Chicago, nor my hubby is. I am just a bit curious about going to Chicago. I heard there are so many Filipinos there and the airport and its terminal is just full of Filipino staff. Probably there's one big Filipino community there by now. Why am I talking about Chicago? It just happened that I bumped into a website about Chicago travel. I got very interested when I learned that Chicago has gravity-edifying architecture, a world-class music scene fueled by thousands of restaurants, and cosmopolitan comforts without the big-city attitude. How I wish I could visit Chicago.
Sports Day
near to the gate, thank God. It was amazing to see my boy participate in the games for his category. He was very fast. I think my boy is going to be competitive in sports too, like his daddy and mommy. His daddy also used to join most of the sports that was offered in his school last time. Sports indeed is a good way to foster sportsmanship, friendship and healthy competition. The only thing my hubby didn't try was golf. A friend of his used to ask him to go with him to play golf. I think, if you get into golf, you would need to buy your own golf equipment.
May 15, 2008
good friends are for keeps


Isn't that pretty? I mean the way she did it. I am very thankful for giving me a friend like her. Very generous at heart, very thoughful, no reservations whatsoever... friends like that are for keeps. Ruby is for keeps.
May 13, 2008
Wedding Coming Up
Third Baby?
No. Not yet. Not having that third baby yet. My friend and I were chatting about it... and talked whether we only want to have two kids (like me, she has two kids too). At this point of time, we agreed that it would be hard to have another one since having two can be too much already sometimes. So, I was telling her that if God wants me to have a third, I pray that when Samantha is already 5 years old. That got me to wondering... what do I do with the baby furniture we have at home. Probably I sell it on e-bay or lend to friends who are having another baby that needs one. If you are in Malaysia and expecting, please let me know. I have some good stuff available here... but in one condition, please return them to me once you know (if) we are getting preggy, okay? Hehehe. And I hope it won't be too soon. 5 years is okay.My Beauty Regimen
When I was in college, I used to break out a lot. I started using this product that was made in China - I forgot the name already. They said you'd normally break out for the first 3 weeks and after that, it would subside. Sad to say, 3 months later I was still breaking out. Arrgghh... I wished then that I could afford a best acne treatment. I would have eliminated all my acnes. It has left some scars actually. But now that I can at least afford to buy stuff for my face, I would go for a water-based product because my skin is oily.
May 10, 2008
Megakidz Adventure, Midvalley Megamall
We went to Megakidz. It's a place where kids could play around. Met Josiet and her family. It was good meeting them. The kids really didn't play with each other because of age difference, but both had fun, I guess. Schenker really had fun. He was all over the place. Sad to say, EJ wasn't feeling well... so they had to leave without meeting my husband. Husband also was late coz he was stuck in the jam. Some things didn't go well according to the plan. But it was good enough meeting them. We'll surely meet up next time. Josiet, seems to me, is a sweet-natured lady. Hoping to get to know her more in person. Blogging can be helpful too in knowing a person... but it's better to meet up live.

All in all, my boy had fun. I had fun. Although it was too tiring for me. Had to wait for hubby to get some dinner. I had, by the way, curry laksa and watermelon juice. Yum. Was planning to eat ice kacang (Malaysian version of halohalo) but had to stop the urge to eat it coz my family's still having flu... not fully recovered yet. They would be tempted to eat too if I did. Maybe next time.



